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Grand Parenting Vs Parenting.

Grand Parenting VS Parenting

Everyone needs ONE person in their life that supports them, NO MATTER WHAT!  

That one person who will provide comfort, have your back & who can stand up to the rest of your family and friends, including your parents. 

Grandparents should be the primary harbour for runaways, a safe place to run to, a place of absolute love, no judgement and lots of comfort foods ūüôā 

Well thats how I see it, although I am not sure all agree.  

I had a discussion today with a friend who does not have grandchildren yet and she was of the opinion that it is the grandparents role to support the parents in all and every topic. Where as I believe good grandparents should support the child first and facilitate communication with parents.  

Children and their parents come into conflict, its a normal part of bringing up a child, which is a Parents responsibility. But Grandparents do not have that responsibility

Grandparents can enhance the child’s life in a different way

We do not have to constantly be trying to mold or direct, we can simply BE with them and enjoy them as they are. This is a truly unique opportunity for both child and grandparent and should not be sullied with the chore of parenting. 

What do you think? 

Coach Lin Nana to 5 beautiful boys. 

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How Cancer Led Me To My Life’s Purpose!

Why & How I became a Life Coach & What I like about it?

Well firstly I love helping people, and seeing them smile, its as simple as that!

I love the friendships that grow as trust in me builds. I love the feeling of accomplishment when my clients succeed!  The money is not what its about for me, the warm sense of satisfaction and inspiration I get from YOU, can be payment in itself sometimes.

Put simply I LOVE MY JOB!

However I was not born a coach, it was not my occupation until 2010 and I came to it via a very unexpected root……………Breast CANCER! Continue reading “How Cancer Led Me To My Life’s Purpose!”

Never be too grown up to play! 

How many time in your life have you been told to ‘Grow UP!’ or indeed how many times have you said those words……and what do we mean by this?¬†

Clearly its a comment on behaviour that is seen as ‘child like’ or ‘immature’ in the eyes of the sayer……..but is it? To them perhaps the actions of the accused are seen to be unacceptable but do they have the right to judge that? Probably not, because even the saying of this indicates that person too may need to heed their own advice.

So what does ‘Growing up’ really mean?¬† Continue reading “Never be too grown up to play!¬†“

Motivation – What Yours?

I’ve been pondering the meaning of the word MOTIVATION.

What motivates an F1 driver to risk their life to drive a car fast, or an athlete to push that bit harder in training? What gets a working mum/mom through her more than hectic day or gets a disabled person out of bed in the morning?  We might say that they are all Motivated but is this the same thing for each of them?

Certainly we can group motivators into categories, for example the F1 driver and the Athlete may both be driven by their competitive need to be the best, but the athlete may also want to be the fittest and the driver the fastest. The mother may be motivated by income / career or the desire to be the best mother in the world & the disabled person by the need to prove everyone wrong.


This one word seems to cover a whole world of thoughts and feelings, all of them different in each of us.


Clearly, we all have intricate and different needs or desires we need to acknowledge, in order to be able to switch our motivation ON.  Finding them, is not always easy because we also like to feel good about our motivators and the truth is, they are not always things we will admit to.

Sometimes our motivation is in conflict with our morals. 

Continue reading “Motivation – What Yours?”

Bitcoin Now Accepted by Help On The Go App.

 

WeLv_BC_Badge_128pxBitcoin, Another First From Our Award Winning Help On The Go App

 

With HELP¬†ON THE GO¬†we brought you the 1ST truly mobile coaching App and now we are doing it again! ¬†That’s right, we are taking the next step in bringing you a truly versatile and easy to use service by now accepting Bitcoin for any of the three amazing coaching deals available in our APP HELP ON THE GO.

So from now, should you need to extend your coaching beyond the free service, not only do you get an incredible deal, which is a fraction of the normal co400px-Bitcoin_accepted_here_sign2st of working with Coach Lin but you get to pay using Bitcoin.

  1. No more exchange rate issues.
  2. Instant digital payment from your phone.
  3. NO MORE BANKS involved.

Bitcoin is a true digital currency of the people. Its a peer to peer system of exchange that is not controlled by governments or banks and we are very excited to be able to offer you this option. If you already use Bitcoin simply click on the Executive Deals Tab in the App, select your option and you will be directed to Our Store where you can choose the yellow Bitcoin button for payment… EASY! If you do not yet use Bitcoin then see the link below for further information.

Our Global service has now truly gone global with

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We will be widening our acceptance of Bitcoin to all products and services soon but we wanted to give our App Users the option to be the first to make use of this exciting new currency.

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If you are unfamiliar with Bitcoin click here for more information.

If you don’t yet have our APP HELP ON THE GO click here to download.

 

copyright © Helping Hand РLife Coaching 2014

 


Disclaimer: As always any information shared here is the opinion of the writer and not intended as financial, medical or life advice.  Any actions taken by the readers is at their own discretion and Coach Lin, Helping Hand РLife Coaching & Help On the Go app cannot be held responsible in any way.   Coach Lin, Helping Hand РLife Coaching & Help On The Go are not receiving any payment in any form from any bitcoin related company.

 

“How Can Coaching Help Me?”

This is a question I hear often from callers to my App Help Line, it’s usually one of the first things people ask. Some hImageave tried counselling or a therapist in the past and cannot see how coaching may differ or get them results.

“Dont we need to be face to face?”¬†¬† –¬† Is the next question, usually followed by

How do I know if you are any good?”¬† So here are a few answers :-

Coaching differs from other forms of therapy in several very important ways.

Coaching is not NOT about your past, it’s about moving forward, so coaches do not spend lots of time trying to identify psychological problems or to diagnose conditions.¬† We may need a general idea of what has happened or of who you are, so we have a better idea of what has already been tried and what was successful or not.¬† We also do NOT write prescriptions or diagnose any conditions, ever!¬† We are not here to label or judge you but to assist you in your endeavour or aid you to solve your problem.

Coaches use carefully crafted questions and fine tuned listening skills to help you find your own answers.  We do not tell you what to do or how to do it, we guide you to your own solutions.  This way, as a plan of action unfolds, it is likely to succeed because YOU are the one mapping it out.  A coach then helps you to keep on track or adjust your plan as necessary.

We do not need to be able to see you to help you. In fact I find it better to have voice only sessions with my clients as this enables me to HEAR the things that arent being said, better. Subtle tones in a voice or hesitation in answers, can mean a lot to a trained coach and this gives me an indication of what questions need to be asked next. Asking the right questions is a huge part of being a good coach. 

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So how do you know, if I am a good coach or indeed the right coach for you?

Well you can goggle me or check out my website, where there is a lot of information about me and some client testimonials.¬† If you need more go to my Cancer Blog, but ultimately it’s probably a trial and error situation. If you are not happy after the first session, then you do not need to do more.¬† I do not require my clients to pay upfront for weeks or months in advance, and I also will refund you if you are truly unhappy (although I have never had to do this yet).¬† I have also found that coaching can be successful in just a few sessions, with the average being around 6. Not the months on end that many seem to feel is needed.¬† I will also allow pay as you go coaching sessions so you don’t have to pre book your time months in advance. As long as we can find a slot when you need it, you’re in.

So to recap:- YOU GETManOnCell

  • No judgment or character assignation
  • Help to find your own Answers
  • Convenient, just pick up the phone, IM or Skype.
  • Usually does not take months to achieve success
  • Can use Pay As You Go no need to pre schedule
  • Client Testimonials for piece of mind
  • First session refundable, if not happy.

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